Maintaining an illusion of monogamy and commitment to the partner. Giving a false impression of one's availability to avoid distractions from the relationship. Losing any sense of security or happiness that came with the partnership.ĭisengaging from technology that could potentially interfere with being present with a partner. Undergoing the heartbreak of losing a romantic partner.įeeling unappreciated and undervalued by a partner who did not reciprocate feelings or respect. Making a promise to oneself to treat a partner with more respect and care than one has witnessed in some men.Īctively paying attention to a partner's needs and feelings. Understanding the emotions that come with a romantic attraction to someone. Imagining the empathy and insight that would come from experiencing life as a man. Having a strong support system of friends who would defend and validate one's choices. Not worrying about others doubting or challenging the social norms one is breaking. Having the freedom to choose one's own company without any external pressures. Socializing with male friends in a way that is seen as stereotypically masculine.įlirting and pursuing romantic interests without fear of judgment from peers. Wearing clothes that feel comfortable without societal expectations for how men should dress.
Not wanting a permanent change but rather a short glimpse into a different life.Ĭasually getting up and starting the day without much thought or intention. The song is also responsible for establishing Beyonce's alter ego, Sasha Fierce, whom she discussed in several interviews. In 2008, "If I Were a Boy" became an instant hit, charting in several countries' top ten, including the UK and the US. He offered the song to Beyonce's team, and she decided to record it. The lyrics of the song were initially written by BC Jean and produced by Toby Gad. The song is an exploration of the difference in expectations, options, and experience, based on gender. She shows the freedom men enjoy in their relationships while women, on the other hand, have to cope with being taken for granted. Beyonce examines the limitations of womanhood in a patriarchal society in contrast to the societal advantages offered to men. She chooses to explore what it means to be a man in a world where men are free to do as they please without social consequences that women would receive for the same behavior. In "If I Were a Boy", Beyonce reflects on the differences between male and female experiences in relationships, imagining what life would be like if she were a man. You don't understand (Yeah, you don't understand) It's a little too late for you to come back
Waiting for me to come home (to come home)
So they'd think that I was sleeping alone
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